Pain is an impermanent state. One wallows in it, internalises it, learns all possible lessons and then gets on with the business of life.
juxtaposition
helps highlight what needs to be
chucked out or retained
What surprises is not the pain, but the response it elicits from others. Some insist on giving you more, some help you see the truth and some look so disappointed at my exit from a transition phase.
relationships change
-alignments impermanent
as much as joy or pain
The only threat I perceive in life is never to have known pain – and consequently never know trust, joy and care. Yet, celebrations of pain are a hyperbole, only to make it a little more bearable.
I’m assuming this is emotional pain which is, generally, transitory. Sadly, there is physical pain that never goes away and in fact gets exponentially worse. One has to accept and live with it, if one wishes to – live.
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You make a very strong point.
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I am sharing a pist I wrote on pain and how I had this strange relationship wih it . Do read !
https://appamprawns.wordpress.com/2021/12/09/pain-in-parts/
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Thanks for sharing the link. Have followed you.
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What surprises me is the hyperbole…this line stands out for me in this one.
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Glad it resonated with you. Thanks!
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“What surprises is not the pain, but the response it elicits from others.” Such a wise and powerful write 💝💝
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Thank you so much, Sanaa!
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Reblogged this on OPENED HERE >> https:/BOOKS.ESLARN-NET.DE.
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‘What surprises is not the pain, but the response it elicits from others.’ I have to agree here, Reena. I was discussing this very matter with someone earlier on today. I like your conclusion: pain is necessary for life, but not something to celebrate.
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Thank you, Ingrid! Glad it resonated with you.
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gain
refrain
jack jill
big hill
climb it again
whopee~
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Wow!!! What a knock down last line
Much💜love
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Thank you, Gillena!
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Very wise words my friend
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Thanks a ton!
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My pleasure
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