Off and on, I was warned about the repercussions of being a free spirit. They label my natural state of being as rebellious, uncaring, un-emotional or whatever term they devise on the spur of the moment.
I learnt soon enough that the problem is same on both sides – discomfort with not being in control.
They resent not being able to exercise control on my life.
I cannot bear the idea of not being in control of my life.
Repercussions have been there – not in the outer, but in emotional worlds. Rejection, gaslighting, mental abuse are not easy to handle.
Yet, strength that develops as a result of walking alone on those paths is a blessing.
I prefer to call it an outcome, rather than consequences or repercussions.
free spirit
on my cross
you do not like it
that s your loss
cost and evade
the jousts
of yester year
only without the lord
need we fear
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Reena, I resonate with your words. Hard to be different. Like how you’ve put a positive spin on it.
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Thank you, VJ!
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Welcome!
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I agree. We are made better when we stand strong for what we believe and not cower to others’ behavior towards us.
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Thank you, Patricia!
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