She entered Nepean District Hospital again, with a firm resolve. She will terminate this pregnancy.
No other child will have an unhappy mother, and lead the miserable life which she had led. A whining, complaining mother blaming others for her plight is the biggest scar on a sane person’s psyche. It affects all relationships.
She glanced at the memorial page for her mother, hosted by the funeral service.
Sandra Crook
Born on 11 January 1946
Passed away in Nepean District Hospital on 13 March 2017
Late of Werrington
Aged 71 years
Abortion was not legal in her state before 1973.
Inspired by Rochelle Wisoff at
Pic: Sandra Crook
A tragic story. It is sad that she feels that she cannot be a good mother because of her mother, but she should not be forced to carry a child.
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Sad, tragic story
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An extremely sad story, Reena. My mother had Alzheimer’s and my husband was later diagnosed with bipolar disorder but even if I’d known before I gave birth I could have never had an abortion. I have two beautiful children. Life is too precious. Anyone with depression needs to get counseling, and perhaps later medication, not an abortion. Good writing. —- Suzanne
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Thanks for sharing an inspiring story! Your two beautiful children are the compensation for initial years of struggle.
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A very personal decision. Your story and the responses it generates conveys that.
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Yes. The wounds inflicted by her mother’s behavior is at the center of the story, not the decision to abort.
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I had a discussion recently with a friend who said he thought all the problems could be solved if we all spoke the same language. But using the same words does not ensure that we all see things the same. As the cliché goes, we all do not have the same heart.
I feel it is more important to have the conversation, to acknowledge different view points, and respect them rather than dismiss them.
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I guess glorifying motherhood has deflected attention from aberrant relationships. In the long run, it is the equation between two individuals that matter not, not genetic bonds.
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Sad story but so well done. This is a powerful piece.
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Wish we had the same law still and saved the many babies.
I understand the plight of ghe mother and baby’s plight too, but wouldn’t excuse abortion!
Btw, I went through a similar situation when I became pregnant with my third baby, 6 years after the second one.
I was tempted to do so, but didn’t. Gave birth to our second son, who actually proved to be the key to many breakthroughs in my/our life.
So I can console the state but nit condone the act. Sorry!
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Tragic.
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Which generation should decide to never be again? I guess it is a matter of continuing the heritage, ending it, or changing it.
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Thought-provoking comment! Thanks!
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This left me wordless. All I can think is how tragic.
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Very powerful and well done, Reena.
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A well written and very sad story, Reena.
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Oh, how I hated to like this one. I hate the killing of babies. In order to save the life of my unborn son, I left my home, my country, gave birth to him in the middle of the street in a foreign land, then adopted him to a distant cousin to raise. This story reminded me of that time in my life and just how terrifying that decision was. If I had to do it again, I wouldn’t change a moment. My Son lived to adulthood, knew me, loved me for my decision. Life is to precious to destroy.
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Thanks for sharing a very personal and touching story! It moved me.
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Oh that was sad… but misery tend to be passed through generation.
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The mother equation affects the entire life.
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Tragedy for all concerned. Well written Reena
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So sad, but good story..
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Sad. At every level.
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The message came through strongly.
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Thanks!
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