The word I came across is ‘Narcissim’.
All of us are narcissists to some extent. Only the extent differs, and makes a difference to the people around us, as well. It controls the extent to which they find us lovable, endearingly tolerable or intolerable.
Writers cannot help, but be narcissistic. A writer can see his/her mental reflection, akin to Narcissus seeing his image in water, but can preserve it, only by laying it open to the outside world. Writing is a process of projecting a part of your innermost self, and one cannot do that, without loving that self, to some extent. Again, the extent differs. And the kind of writing differs.
Non-Creative Writing
Such pieces are compilation of information, presentation of research findings, analyses of facts or vanilla reports. There is a writer’s viewpoint and a creative input in the manner of presentation of each piece, and the personality of the writer does reflect. But primarily, the writer has to remain true to the subject matter, rather than his own view. Research theses, academic writing, business writing, technical writing all fall under this category. It is a challenge to remain objective, and the battle is to limit the impact of your own perspective, on the piece written. One has to be careful, to not cross over into the realms of fiction.
Creative Writing
Creative writing is liberal, and is also gut-wrenching. One has to experience a situation, fully live it inside the head, distance oneself from it, and then, present it in an acceptable manner, for others to comprehend easily. It is an internal reflection on the external world – images that are absorbed, are processed, and the edited output that results. Confessional writing, self-descriptive writing , thinly disguised fictional writing and memoirs all fall under this realm. Poetry enjoys a higher degree of freedom, in creative expression, though. The pieces need to be structured and tailored to the target audience. It is a bigger challenge, to not hurt sensibilities of others in the process of self-expression. The sensitized reader is quick to catch the points, where the internal ends, and the external begins.
Self-projection has become a necessity, in the increasingly cacophonous and claustrophobic world. One has to do it, primarily to prevent getting lost, and then, to make oneself heard. Hence, I am wary of using a blanket description to cover all signs of narcissism in writers. I believe, there were no mirrors or camera lenses to help Narcissus, but an excessive presence of these devices in the modern world has changed life. Social media exposes the narcissist, like it has never happened in the bygone eras. It is a common mirror, in which the members of a community see their reflections, and see how others react to their own reflections.
I found this heart-wrenching image of the inability of a person to cover up. It is all out there, open and vulnerable.
The image is really heart-wrenching.
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Yeah… Can’t get it out of mind.
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Excellent post, Reena. When narcissism becomes an obsession then it becomes intolerable otherwise, everyone teaches to love yourself first.
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Thanks, Indira! We call it narcissim, only when it becomes an obsession.
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Okay. thanks for the information. I have to search google for lots of words you write. I don’t know how to use them.
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Wow! Excellent post.
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Thank you, Franci!
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You’re welcome.
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Really interesting. I have thought about this often. I conscioysly try not to be overly narcissistic, but I guess it happens. But so often there wilk be someone who comes back at me and says that they feel that way, and so then they don’t feel so alone. So that is the good side of it. Very interesting topic
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Glad you liked it, Lorraine!
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Writers have to be narcissistic as a necessity. Great post.
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Thanks a lot!
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